I think as a girl, it's better for me not to be emotionally attached to any boys who is blood-non related -- well unless til i'm ready to have a serious relationship, marriage. Cause when you are emotionally attached to someone, or may be it will fit better if i say when i am emotionally attached to someone, like it or not i will start to expect something from him, and the more you expect something from the other the more likely you'll be disappointed. Ada yang bilang, low expectation is the key to happiness. Well, sebenernya sih yang bikin ngga bahagia nya itu bukan karena udah berekspektasi tinggi-tinggi, tapi karena ekspektasi tingginya ga tercapai dan biasanya ekspektasi yang tinggi ini ditujukan kepada orang yang sadly ternyata ga capable buat kita ekspektasiin tinggi-tinggi. So, gapapa sih ekspektasi tinggi but choose wisely whom to be expected and I, personally, prefer to choose my self rather than anyone else. Because in the end, the only person who is responsible for your happiness is your own self. I don't want to waste my time waiting for someone to bring happiness into my life, well do you?
Maaf kalo agak ga nyambung ya, tapi kira-kira isi otak saya ya begini, heeee
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